The Grammy Awards. Music's biggest night and highest honor. I loved the show this year- the big productions numbers, the fashion, the Michael Jackson tribute, the number of amazing artists all under one roof. I've grown up watching the Grammys believing that one day... :) Did you watch the Grammys this year? What were your favorite parts? What would you like changed about the award show?
TIP OF THE WEEKAs I watched the Grammys, my producer text me "U better be watching the Grammys right now :) Visualize!!" You better believe it! "See yourself where you want to be before you are even there." It is such a powerful tool! It has been said in so many ways and written about in so many books:
Think and Grow Rich,
Ask and it is Given,
The Secret. Visualization techniques have been used by some of the most successful athletes, businessmen, you name it. Try it for yourself and see what happens!!
Visualization Exercise by Susan Pilgrim, Ph.D.
Here's the basic visualization process. You'll want to make whatever adjustments necessary to maximize the effectiveness of this technique. It will get easier each time you do it.
* First, find a quiet place away from distractions. Get into a comfortable position and relax your body. Take a number of slow, deep breaths. Release tension, concerns, and anxieties as you exhale. (They'll be waiting for you when you've completed the exercise -- if you still want them.) Clear the screen of your mind's eye. See the number one (or any other non-emotive symbol) on your mind's screen. Focus your attention on the number one. Allow other thoughts and feelings to dissipate.
* Next, allow the number one to fade out as you begin to visually create what it is you want to accomplish with this exercise. [The point-of-view you'll use will depend on the purpose of your visualization. We'll explore the specifics later in this article.] Visually create each figure, the scenery, the setting, filling your picture with the minutest details. Add vivid colors to your picture. Make the colors bright and dramatic. Once your picture is in technicolor, add the sounds that are associated with your picture. You might hear yourself saying words, others talking, birds singing, waves crashing, or balls bouncing. Once the volume is turned up, fill your picture with the aromas and tastes that are associated with it, such as the fragrance of flowers, salt in the ocean air. Add the sensation of touch. What does the picture feel like in the sense of textures and temperature? Is the hand you're shaking warm and soft or rough and calloused? Now, enjoy the full picture you've created.
* Add the critical element to your visualization -- your emotions. It's the emotional element that expertly transfers your picture into your brain's memory cells. With your picture in full array, add to it the emotions you want to feel when you find yourself in this situation. Whatever the emotions -- pride, confidence, patience, gratitude, love -- feel them fully. Allow your body to actually respond to the feelings associated with your picture. Smile, beam, gesture, whatever way you express your emotions. Hold your feelings in concert with your picture. Fully be in the picture you've created for yourself.
* Once you've held your picture strongly on your mind's screen for a few minutes, let it fade gradually until you return to your focus symbol -- the number one. Then commend yourself for using this tool for affecting change in your life.
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